Obsession: an unhealthy and compulsive preoccupation with something or someone

Everyone or say most of us or may be some of us would have definitely gone through the periods of intense obsession. It could be of diverse nature viz. career, love life, passion, religious sentiments etc.  Obessions in a way can be a boon as they tend to keep you focussed and energised, if related to career/work etc. Although, if there is a result associated with that obsession, consequences may not always be pleasant.The human mind tends to believe the positive outcome of the obsession. You tend to seeing things fall in place in a way to fulfill        your obsession. And offcourse, the famous quote from Paulo Coelho catches up more meaning and essence.

“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”

Obsession can grip your mind so intensely, that those school of thoughts keep on running in mind while you are eating, sleeping, driving or even taking bath.  Some people regard obsession as a quantity to measure seriousness and willingness on that obsession. It may not always be true. Obsession is usually coupled with retrospection. We may try to relate it to some unaccomplished tasks of the past. It can also be accentuated by superstitious beliefs, astrology etc. There are various factors that may trigger or enhance obsession like friends, family, society or even music.

Is obsession good? Well it’s a difficult one to answer. It all depends on what you are obsessed with, its feasibility, relevance and practicality to your life etc. A positive obsession is always good and a negative can have a bad impact on your life. It is good to be obsessed, but in a moderation. Sharing your obsession with loved ones, close friends etc can help to overcome or drive it in a new positive direction.